"Code Words": How To Use Them Effectively For Child Safety
"Code Words": How To Use Them Effectively For Child Safety
Wasn't it interesting to learn about the 1:42 probability that your child may be kidnapped? These are not good odds in your favor, in other words! There are too many individuals who are too complacent regarding the protection of children. "It couldn't happen to my kid" seems to be their mindset. Anyone who has spoken with the parents of children who have gone missing would confirm that their thoughts were exactly the same as yours. Furthermore, you can assume that their frame of mind has shifted dramatically.
Is there anything you can do right now that will significantly alter the chances in your favor? Today is the day to begin employing "code words" inside your own household.
Here are some of the most fundamental rules of code-word use. Let's get this party started.
Where did you hear that one? In addition to his/her parents, a kid should be trained to trust just a few close relatives or family friends to pick him/her up after school or other activities away from home.
What are the circumstances in which you employ the secret phrase? It's best to call the "special person" if you can't pick up your kid at the agreed-upon time and there's no way to reach your youngster. The family code word must be used if you are unable to pick up your kid and are unable to contact the "special person."
Where do we go to get the family's "code word?" Choosing a code word for your family is an important part of teaching your children the importance of secrecy and keeping them safe. I CAN'T SAY ENOUGH HOW IMPORTANT THIS IS! The following is a reiteration: You want your youngster to be able to recall the code word easily, but you also want it to be tough for others to guess. Crocodiles, giraffes, baboons, and goldfish are all examples of creatures that might be used as a starting point. Avoid using names that are commonplace in your neighborhood. For example, never use the name of a beloved pet or animal that your kid adores.
Don't choose a "code word" from your family's or home's frequent items. Let your imagination run wild, and have fun with your kids while doing this. And don't forget to be quite detailed. What about a "purple bear" instead of a "bear" as your code word? Keeping children safe can be a lot of fun if you remember that. Make sure your youngsters aren't scared.
What is the code word system like for my kid? Children should know to ask "What's the code word?" if someone other than their parents, spouse, or "special person" claims to be picking them up on their behalf. If someone tries to pick up your kid and they don't know the code word, you should encourage your youngster to doubt them.
Do I keep using the same code phrase throughout the game? Not at all! Every time an emergency occurs that necessitates the employment of the code word, the family must choose a new one. Make it clear to the kids that the previous one is no longer relevant. The new code word should be reviewed often enough for all members of the household to remember it.
Let's wrap up this post on kid safety with a reminder that code phrases are effective in preventing children from being harmed. As a result of their efforts, many children have been spared. There are many families that utilize this basic, yet incredibly powerful, technique. A large number of youngsters have been able to successfully use the code word tool.
Your children's safety is at stake, so remember to keep things lighthearted!
Until we meet again.
It's a great day to spend time with your children!